So what do these puzzler shows do to you, that has a
positive impact on your life and career:
1)
You get
into the habit of not jumping to conclusions. In real-life crime, the most obvious suspect
usually did do it. Spouses, gangs, drugs
and alcohol: that’s where real detectives look.
But in the puzzler shows, your brain gets programmed to stop and do 360
interviews, digging for what’s hidden, before you come to any conclusion.
Think about what this would be like as it plays out in your career and personal life. Stop, breathe, get your pre-frontal cortex involved before you let your limbic system lock on to the first (stupid) thing that occurs to it. What would your life and career be like if all your ideas were fully vetted by your thinking brain before it gets cast in mental concrete? What if everyone around you, especially management, did this? Oh. My. God.
Think about what this would be like as it plays out in your career and personal life. Stop, breathe, get your pre-frontal cortex involved before you let your limbic system lock on to the first (stupid) thing that occurs to it. What would your life and career be like if all your ideas were fully vetted by your thinking brain before it gets cast in mental concrete? What if everyone around you, especially management, did this? Oh. My. God.
2)
You
collect actual physical evidence before you believe anything. You collect evidence that could potentially
contradict the first batch of physical evidence. No stone is left unturned. Real law enforcement doesn’t have this kind
of budget. But our fictional detective
processes, where science is the real hero of the show, are thorough, meticulous
and don’t believe anything unless there is lots and lots of irrefutable
evidence for the conclusion.
Translate this into your own career life. I’ve watched shoot-from-the-lip jerks be admired and promoted, more times than I can count. But I also have lived the corporate life long enough to have seen what happens when managers realize, a year too late, that they bought the sizzle and ignored the steak. The sizzler is sent packing. Listing the possible options with pros and cons out loud, while your thinking brain is doing its diamond-sharp analysis as a background process, allows you to, at worst, promise a data-driven robust conclusion later in the day, and at best, end the oration with your really wise, “steak” conclusion. Nice place to be, either way.
Translate this into your own career life. I’ve watched shoot-from-the-lip jerks be admired and promoted, more times than I can count. But I also have lived the corporate life long enough to have seen what happens when managers realize, a year too late, that they bought the sizzle and ignored the steak. The sizzler is sent packing. Listing the possible options with pros and cons out loud, while your thinking brain is doing its diamond-sharp analysis as a background process, allows you to, at worst, promise a data-driven robust conclusion later in the day, and at best, end the oration with your really wise, “steak” conclusion. Nice place to be, either way.
3)
You get shot, stabbed or conked on the head
regularly, but very rarely die, unless you were hoping to leave the
series for a new job anyway. If we could deeply believe the maxim of all
the wisdom tradition – “It’s going to be all right, long-term.” – we would be
more willing to try things. Some new
ideas fail. Most are so-so. Some are spectacular. All of them reward your courage and vision
with growth.
If you watch enough cliffhangers that turn into recoveries, you might start believing that you are bullet-proof as well – not enough to get you stupid, but enough to give you courage to jump off a mountain with a skilled tandem hang-gliding partner. For a millisecond or so, before the lift grabs you and saves you, you are dropping through the air, with no force but gravity working on you. The more times you drop and are saved, the more certain you become that, whatever happens in your career, you will walk away alive, with lessons and knowledge that no one can ever take away from you.
If you watch enough cliffhangers that turn into recoveries, you might start believing that you are bullet-proof as well – not enough to get you stupid, but enough to give you courage to jump off a mountain with a skilled tandem hang-gliding partner. For a millisecond or so, before the lift grabs you and saves you, you are dropping through the air, with no force but gravity working on you. The more times you drop and are saved, the more certain you become that, whatever happens in your career, you will walk away alive, with lessons and knowledge that no one can ever take away from you.
If we all did this in our non-TV
lives, human history would take a dramatic turn for the better, as would your
career or small business. Try it and see!
Victoria C. Leo creates
blast-through-barriers programs for career professional and entrepreneurs. Visit www.soaringdragon.biz,
http://soaringdragoninjapan.blogspot.com,
Facebook group Healing Minds, Healing Bodies or email victoria.leo.reiki@gmail.com.
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